I have a 13 year old daughter. She does not like visiting with her father. She is uncomfortable in his house and they constantly have conflict when she is there. I get texts from here everytime she is over at his house saying how she hates it there and how she hates him and wants to please come home. We have a mediated agreement (in draft form only) for joint custody. Does she have any say-so in this situation? Does she have to visit with him if she is absolutely against it?
Also, my 18 year old son is graduating this June. Is he eligible to make his own decisions about with whom and where he wants to spend his time?