I have been married for 15 years, my husband has had an affair and I hired a PI and now have what I need to prove he was having an affair. We did not start having problems until I noticed he was texting and talking with a female co-worker on evenings and weekends. I then hired the PI and now have to proof.
I am considering filing AA against her.
I have since had to go on medication and have been seeing a therapist on a weekly basis since this has happened, and lost over 50 lbs. I have now lost his income and we are sharing the kids 50/50 custody. He moved out of the family house and got an apartment, I had the kids for a month or more while he was getting “settled in”.
My question is, when can I start dating? I don’t want to jeopardize my chances of winning an AA case. I have gone to dinner with a guy several times, I had surgery and he brought me dinner one night. We have been separated for 9 months. If she had me followed by a PI and they took picture of us at dinner, do you think that would negate my chances for case of AA?