Hi there. I have been living with a verbally and emotionally abusive woman for years. She has gotten physical a few times. The other night she was throwing one of her tantrums while I was in my sons room trying to get him ready for bed. I have been feeling like there was someone else for a long time. She had been denying it. Well the other night I overheard her loudly talking to her self saying that there had been someone the whole time. I had my phone video on so that I could document her if she attacked me. So I walked into the kitchen where she was standing at the sink and I asked her to repeat what she said and she did and she told me how good it was right there with me holding my phone and filming her.
She now wants me or has actually threatened me telling me that I need to go ahead and find a suitable place to live for myself. Our house was purchased during our marriage, she makes twice as much money as I do and I have always been intimidated by her. I do not want to leave this house I have a lot of blood, sweat,tears and cash put into this house.
I also do not want to lose a minute with my kids. I am the assistant coach of my older sons football team and the assistant coach of my younger son’s soccer team. they are nine and four. If I am not at work, I am here at the house with them, they Are my world