My husband and I have been married for almost eight years. I am the primary breadwinner. He is ten years younger and has a Duke engineering degree. He does not work and refuses to. He says that taking care of the kids is his job, even though my work is completely flexible and allows me to say home mostly (I am a professor). We have five kids, all under six years old.
If I file for a divorce, will I be obligated to pay alimony? I’ve been trying to get him to work all of this time. Also, what about child custody. I want sole custody of the children, how likely is that? And, can I move to a different state?