Worried

If you are legally married when the child is born, your Husband will be assumed to be the father and his name will be put on the birth certificate. You can give the child your last name, but not the last name of your boyfriend, unless your Husband consents. You will also have trouble buying property in your own name. I would suggest you consult with an attorney and find out what you need to do before you can file for divorce.

Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm

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I am worried. My ex and I have been Separated (no legal separation papers have been drawn up) for 2 years. I have become pregnant w/ my boyfriend. I was told that I would have to give the baby my ex’s last name since I am not divorced. Is that true??? Also, I am in the process of buying a house. Would my husband have rights to that house during as part of the divorce settlement even though we have been separated.

Thanks in advance for answering my questions.

Melissa