I know your hurt but you want to sue in NC courts for something that happened in a foreign country? There is no way that should be allowed it would be like letting a NC State Trooper write you a speeding ticket for doing 75 mph which is illegal in NC while you were driving on an Italian highway where the speedlimit is 100mph. I am not saying this guy is not a slime ball for going after married women just that I dont think you can get him for AA in NC for actions that happened out of the state.
Now Italy may have a similar law have you looked into that?
jnewman