Absent Father

I have 5 kids with my ex husband 2 are adults now and 3 are still under age, he was in jail and then left the country after getting released in 2010. He has not spoke to them since 2012. I have been trying to get my kids a passport but cannot since 2 of them are still under 16.
I was also divorced in 2016 by publication, but my attorney at the time said she could not file for custody at the same time.

How do I go about filing to terminate his parental rights? What forms would I have to fill out to establish his abandonment and get his rights terminated?

You will have to file a petition for a termination of parental rights in DSS/juvenile court. There is no pre-printed form.

A custody order granting you sole/exclusive legal and physical custody may help you as well. You would need to file a custody complaint against the father and serve him. You may also have to serve him by publication if you still cannot locate his address after due diligence.


Anna Ayscue

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