Dear Terry123:
Greetings. The answer is that “legally” no, your 16 year old son does not get a choice. Now, some judges will not make the Sheriff go and pick up a 16 year old continually though, so if he plans on running away to Dad’s house, you may have a one time Sheriff pick him up deal.
Even if your son wants to move to Dad’s you know that you must fight for him since you have seen the destruction your ex caused to your other children.
Now, your ex does not have to serve you with a Motion to Modify Custody. Instead, he only has to mail a copy to you. He does not even have to mail it by certified mail.
I believe you are doing the right thing…the only thing you can do to safeguard your son and let him know that you care. Even if he goes to dad’s, he can never say that no one fought for him or cares about him. Best of luck and let us know if we can help.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
NCDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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