Alimony


#1

It sounds like you need to file a lawsuit and ask the court to order that the house be put on the market.

Generally, the spouse that earns more money pays alimony to the spouse that makes less money. However, there are circumstances where a dependent spouse would not be required to pay support. In order to tell you how those specifics would apply in your case, it would be wise for you to meet with an attorney and your circumstances.

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#2

I separated from my husband in July. In December he confessed to using drugs (crack). I have been going to the Hopeline (counseling for abused women since November. Although I was never physically hit, I was being woke up every night around 10:30 and yelled at for an hour or more. I am a nurse and I have to get up at 4:30am so this was a real problem for me. In December, I ask him to leave and if he would go to rehab and prove that he could be clean and live right I would let him back. He did go to in patient rehab and used the “I found God card” which I fell for Hook, Line and Sinker and let him back in Jan. In April he began the same pattern of controlling everything, yelling and so forth. May, I ask him to leave again and said I wanted a divorce. My 14 year old daughter,not of this marriage, would not come home (she stated with good friends) from the end of May on. He refused to leave or let me buy his half of the house or put the house on the market. Of course, he said he would buy my half of the house. I explained to him that at $12 hour it was not possible to get a loan for $200,000 but he insisted. July, I left. In turn, he refused to sign the separation agreement because he needed some changes to be made. He wants alimony. I am the larger earner but he made my life and my daughter’s life a living hell. I did get him to sign a Free Trader Agreement so I could purchase a home. In turn the other home loan is in my name and needless to say he hasn’t paid a penny on it. I made July’s payment but August has not been made ( this is the first time I have not paid a bill in my life and I am very upset about it). Although he calls me and leaves 10 messages a day on my cell, work and home phone, he has no interest in discussing making a mortgage payment. Please tell me that I will not have to pay this man alimony. We were married in Sept of 1998.

Annette Sengebusch