Alimony


#1

If the divorce was granted in NC and one of the parties still lives here then the NC courts would retain jurisdiction over those issues. Permanent alimony can be terminated if you can show a substantial change in circumstances that justifies its termination (change in income, expenses, serious illness, etc.). North Carolina law does not authorize the payment of lump sum alimony to terminate a future alimony obligation, however you and your ex are free to reach an agreement that permits that.

If the alimony was in a contract and not a court order, and it was not incorporated into your divorce judgment, then it cannot be modified by the courts.

In order to get a comprehensive response to your questions you should take your agreement to an attorney and review it when them, they should be able to make you aware of your options.

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#2

I wanted to ask a question! If you are military and divorced in NC and you do not live in NC nor are you stationed there any longer does other legal issues for your divorce have to stay in the NC courts?

I am already divorced, but there are other legal issues that need to be hashed out. How can a NC have jurisdiction over me if I no longer live there?

Also how can you terminate or get permanent alimony stopped or reduced it is true that you can get it reduced based on if the ex gets a lump sum or you have a change in circumstances.

Is there no way out of permanent alimony ever. I have read here that if it is agreed upon in a settlement agreement that you are not able to do anything with it? Are you stuck paying it forever? I didn’t have good legal councel when I divorced so I am just wondering. The ex makes more money than I do and won’t work so I am trying to see an end to this.

It was reduced once but given to the ex in child support. I am now remarried and have other responsibities and the ex can work but won’t? SO are there any outs in permanent alimony? If not what are my options. Also when a child is 18 does child support stop or do you have to go to court for that?