The only way to make absolutely certain that signing the proposed Separation Agreement is in your best interest is to consult with a family law attorney.
From your post, it sounds as if you are a financially dependant spouse with two children, who’s husband committed adultery. You have a lot to lose by signing a Separation Agreement that is not in your best interest. You may unknowingly waive rights that you did not realize you had. Remember, a Separation Agreement is a legally binding contract. You should seek legal counsel immediately.
Robin F. Verhoeven
Attorney at Law
Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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