Short story -
Wife filed for divorce. She works part time, I am self employed and use the home as an office. Due to our income and debt , neither of us can separate. Her lawyer told her that if she wants a divorce THAT SHE will need to be gainfully employed and move out. She says she has been looking, but the only thing she has found is a sexting buddy that is 15 yrs younger than her. After being caught, she says she has cut it off ( I believe it went to a physical level as well ) or has gone more underground in communication with him. We sleep in separate rooms and must live in the same house , but it is maddening. I try to avoid the fights , but the constant barage of verbal abuse I have to deal with is getting to me and the childeren ( boys 14 and 16 ). I have been seeing a therapist for months , even before she filed and I have made progress to only going twice a month. She is continually blaming me and my family for everything that went wrong over the past 18 yrs.
Is anyone else out there stuck in a similar situation and if so, HOW do you cope ?