Attorney committing Adultery with my wife


#1

If he is the one, he makes 110K per yr and has only been out of school about 16 months. By the way I know him also. He was a mutual friend. BASTARD!

Should I bother hiring a PI and suing no matter who it is? What’s the point. It’s over and once she signs the Agreement, I guess it will be offical.


#2

Janet,

Are you researching? Are you going to reply? I see you have posted but not to my questions.

Thanks,
Mav


#3

Dear maverick:

Greetings. Is this her attorney, or just an attorney? If it is not an attorney representing her, then I doubt you can get him disbarred for having sex with your wife. Generally, attorneys cannot be involved in crimes involving “moral turpitude” (I will have to check the spelling on that) and I don’t think that having an affair with your wife is such a crime. I am not going to research whether or not it is. You may want a PI to prove adultery if you believe you may have to pay her alimony. Best of luck.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


#4

I questioned him in June via email about the relationship and why all the phone calls 1200 minutes in a 30 day period and that’s just on his phone bill as per his wife)-he said some of it was friendship and the rest was attorney client priviledge! I don’t have the email any longer but it could be requested if need be under court order, I guess, since it was an email from my job’s email to and from his job’s email (S*&%$ Law in Raleigh). I don’t know if he’s the one but it sure is a great possibility, knowing what I know now! Alimony isn’t an issue so I guess neither is a PI?


#5

Dear maverick:

You can hire a PI if you want to try to litigate for alienation of affection or criminal conversation - but remember that in addition to the fees for the PI, you will also have large attorney fees to pursue this action.

Also, if this attorney is hiding his affair with your wife under the attorney client privilege, it will be a nightmare of a case to litigate. Best of luck.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
RosenDivorce.com
919-787-6668

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


#6

I have seen phone records that prove she talks to him dozens of hours per month. I also have bank records that indicate she visits the area he lives (100 miles away from here) and lies about her activities. I don’t have photos or videotape. If I’m correct, she’s cheating with this attorney who lives in the Triangle area. Can I get him barred by NC if I hire a PI and can prove adultery? I know I can sue but at the same time he’s an attorney and would probably bury me in the system. He’s also separated from his wife.