Oh, I also have lots of emails to prove our relationship.

Are you divorced from this man?

What are you asking if you can do? If you are not divorced then legally he is married to you both. If you have still continued to have a relationship this entire time then I believe that you should talk to an attorney. I’m not sure how Alienation of Affection would work in this case, other than that you were married to him first…

Yes, I am still married to him. Even though he married her 3 years ago, we still continued a sexual relationship the entire time we were separated even while he was still married to her. He even talked about us getting back together while he was married to her.

I think this may help:


He has already been arrested and got out on an unsecured bail. He is supposed to pay for the divorce per our separation agreement since I am on disability and have a very limited income. According the police, he said he was going to do the divorce asap, but it has been almost a month and I haven’t heard anything or gotten anything in the mail. From what I understand, I should be getting some papers sent to me saying he is filing for divorce, then there is a 30 day waiting period. I would have thought by now, I would have gotten something.
Per the police, I can’t even contact him or him me.

We discussed your question on yesterday’s live call-in show at around the 21 minute mark. I’ve included the link below. … ly-2-2008/

I just recently found out that the husband that I had been separated from for 5 year had remarried 3 years ago. During our separation, we continued to have a relationship emotionally and sexually. He continued to lead me on that we might possibably get back together the entire time. I had no idea that he was even dating anybody because he said he wasn’t. He completely mislead me. I filed charges with the police. My question is, am I entitled to alienation of affection or anything else? I did find out that several months after we separated that he was seeing an old friend of ours. He said they were strickly friends. I called her and told her to stay away from my husband since we where trying to work things out. My ex later said he hadn’t seen her in a long time. So, I thought she was out of the picture, but he just married her. Is there anything I can do?