Can I just keep my kids?


#1

If the court has never addressed the issue of custody, then you can file a lawsuit for custody and the court will make a determination based on the best interest of your child. If you have moved and made every effort to be a part of your child’s life, you can expect that the court will do whatever they believe is in your child’s interest to preserve this relationship.

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#2

My (then) wife suddenly took off with my kids one day without warning. She just kept them. For months I had no access to them and didn’t have money for an attorney for advice. We settled into the routine of her having the kids instead of me. Eventually I was able to get some visitation worked out and documented with her in a non-court ordered custody agreement.

She is threatening to take my kids far away again shortly after I move to be close to them. Since our custody document was merely something we wrote up and had notorized together I wonder how legally binding it is. Specifically, I’m wondering if she tries to run off with them again, can I just not return them to her after one of my weekend visits to prevent her from moving them away from me again?