My ex (we were never married) in the last month has left NC to New Orleans. He is now in FL according to his FB page and has a job there. Before this he saw our DS every Wed and every other weekend by a mutual agreement. Well 4 weeks ago he just up and left to New Orleans and has called maybe 3-4 times to talk to our son. I filed for Child Support in July. We have our first court date on Jan. 30. I know he is still a resident of NC and has not established any residendecy in another state yet. I have a HUGE feeling he is not going to show up to court. He called me and said he would send money to me when he gets a good job. I have not recieved $1 from him in alomst 2 years. Before that he was paying me $100 a month( again a mutual agreement). However I still allowed him to see our son as normal. Anyways what am I supposed to say when I show up to court and he is not there? Do I mention he is in Sarasota, FL or maybe New Orleans, LA? The only info I have is his cousins phone # in LA. I assume he is staying and working under his brother in Fl as a painter (under the table). Or do I not say a thing? I want the court to know that I have him overnight all the time now but, I DO NOT want to delay this process what so ever!