Greetings. You can talk to the child support enforcement agency in the even that you want to set/establish child support.
As far as the custody issues, you are being a floor mat. Your ex never had the option to come in and out of your home after the date of separation - even if he was paying the mortgage.
If he just shows up, don’t answer the door. When he calls later, inform him that he needs to make prior arrangements or you will have to take him to court to have the judge pick his times. So, either your ex can pick the times with you in advance or the judge can pick his times for him. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
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