I separated from my ex wife just over 3 years ago and our divorce has since become final. There are NO outstanding ongoing issues, no property, child support, children’s custody etc. I made the decision to move on with the rest of my life without any contact whatsoever with my ex. I made it clear to my ex that if she has anything to say to me, then I should hear it from her lawyer only.
My ex has not attempted to contact me directly, but she is constantly contacting mutual friends and asking them to pass various small messages to me. So I frequently get asked various questions if I want to see her pics, child pics and other updates which I do not care about. The messages from friends are usually pre-phased by the sentence " I know you don’t want to know, but…" and then followed by “She really just wants you to know” or “She was really emotional when she told me so I had to tell you.”
Basically her emotional, emotional messages are getting to my friends and I am basically getting harassed. I am hoping this does not lead her to think she can pick up the phone one day and call me or send me an email. I am looking for a way to nip this in the bud.
I was doing some research into this, and I know I do not qualify for a restraining order of any kind. I was wondering if a civil no contact order was possible, or any other legal recourse under NC law to stop her.