If you are pro se and being subject to contempt you will receive court appointed counsel if you financially qualify.
If you are behind on child support it is possible the Judge can put you in jail and leave you there until the payments are current, you need to do everything you can to bring those payments current before court. If you have not had your son around your fiance you need to bring to the court as much evidence as you can to prove that is not the case.
You could try bringing up evidence that your ex is retaliating against you, but the court is generally only interested in evidence related to the allegations in his motion to show cause.
Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, NC 28262
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Chapel Hill, NC 27514
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