Greetings. I cannot imagine why any insurance carrier would tell a father that he cannot have his children on his insurance without an order. Nevertheless, if your husband agrees to the order (and maybe even agrees to pay half of the costs of drafting the order) you will be able to do a Qualified Medical Support Consent Order. You can have an attorney draft it, him agree to it, and file it in your court file (if you have one) or file a “friendly complaint.” Best of Luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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