First of all watch out for attorneys [;)]. To answer your question, I need to know what you are getting in child support. Use the child support calculator on our website to determine if he is paying what he is supposed to. My guess is he is under paying according to the North Carolina Child Support Guidelines and this is why you are having your financial difficulty.
In a proceeding to modify an existing order that is three years old or older, a difference of 15% or more between the amount of the existing order and the amount of child support resulting from application of the Guidelines based on the parents’ current incomes and circumstances shall be presumed to constitute a substantial change of circumstances warranting modification. If the order is less than three years old, this presumption does not apply.
If you don’t know about his ask him for his tax returns. With three kids, substantial ex-spouse income, you should be reasonably comfortable. If you are receiving everything you are entitled to and you are still struggling, then a court may, I stress may not must, consider this if the court is re-evaluating child custody. My guess is your husband is seriously under paying. If this is the case, tell him you are entitled to the correct amount or you will take him to court. If he blows you off, get an attorney and try to stick him with the legal fees. Good luck…
Richard “Bert” Diener
The Rosen Law Firm
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