Generally no, if she forgave you for the affair that is legally known as condonation and the affair would not have an impact on alimony at this point. However, if you continued the affair and she was not aware of the situation, that would have an impact on alimony.
You will not have to pay child support and generally are not entitled to visitation.
The court will look at the circumstances of your marriage and the income earning potential of both of you. However, if she has not worked for the past several years, her lack of income may entitle her to alimony.
Generally, the car she drives will be allocated to hear, regardless of whose name the title is in.
She cannot contest a divorce, if you are separated for one year you can legally get a divorce. If you leave the marital residence withour provocation it is considered abandonment, there are generally not severe consquences unless you abandon her financially. You should consult with an attorney about the specific facts of your case before deciding to move out.
Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
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Charlotte, NC 28262
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Chapel Hill, NC 27514
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