Divorce Questions


#1
  1. Generally no, if she forgave you for the affair that is legally known as condonation and the affair would not have an impact on alimony at this point. However, if you continued the affair and she was not aware of the situation, that would have an impact on alimony.

  2. You will not have to pay child support and generally are not entitled to visitation.

  3. The court will look at the circumstances of your marriage and the income earning potential of both of you. However, if she has not worked for the past several years, her lack of income may entitle her to alimony.

  4. Generally, the car she drives will be allocated to hear, regardless of whose name the title is in.

  5. She cannot contest a divorce, if you are separated for one year you can legally get a divorce. If you leave the marital residence withour provocation it is considered abandonment, there are generally not severe consquences unless you abandon her financially. You should consult with an attorney about the specific facts of your case before deciding to move out.

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#2

I have several questions about divorce and separation

1)I committed adultery in the marriage but we decided to stay together 3 more years after the affair to try to work things out. Could my wife use that against me in the divorce proceedings? Or since she decided to resume the marriage with me, will the adultery no longer be substantial?

2)We had no children together but my wife had a child from a previous relationship. I’ve been in the child’s life for the duration of the marriage/relationship, which is about 7 years the child is now 10. The child considers me their father. I never adopted the child but was going to before the marriage started falling apart. Due to my being in the child’s life, but not the child’s biological father will I have to pay child support? Can my wife file a motion for child support from me? If so, will I be afforded visitation?

3)My wife doesn’t work but has twice the earning potential that I have because she has several degrees. I don’t have any degree but I’m bringing home all the money. Will the judge take earning potential into consideration, since she is solely dependent on me?

  1. We have 2 cars both in my name, one was acquired during the marriage. This is the only property we own as we are renting right now. Will i have to give her one of the cars, since they are both in my name? or will she be allowed to decide?

  2. My wife told me that if I decide i want to separate, but she doesn’t want to, that she can contest the divorce/separation, which will in turn make me guilty of abandonment. Is this true? What constitutes abandonment?