You can bring up the issue of infidelity when the issue of alimony is addressed. The court may find that you condoned the relationship because you reconciled with him after you were aware of it. If you make less money than him, and you cannot meet your expenses on your own income, you would most likely be entitled to alimony anyway.
All of the conduct that occurred during the marriage will be considered by the court. But the conduct that has occurred most recently, will be given the most attention.
NC is a no fault divorce state, that means in order to get a divorce you must be separated for one year and one day. Adultery will affect support, but it will not affect the absolute divorce.
Even if he shows no income on his taxes, the court will look beyond the taxes and try to figure out what he is actually earning.
Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
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301 McCullough Drive
Charlotte, NC 28262
Main Phone: (704)307.4600
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Chapel Hill, NC 27514
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