My ex and I, have a temp order that was done in Aug 2008. I have temp custody with him have 2 weeks in this month and 2 week in that month. No other visitation for he is out of NC. We have been divorced for awhile now, and we still have not gone to court for custody. I have had our son since he moved out feb 2008.
My question is this. I don’t want to be one of those mother’s who thinks she has the power to keep a child away from their other parent. I’m not like that. I am allowing my 3 yr old son to be with his father for four weeks starting at the end of this month til Aug 1st. (but only if our son wants to stay that long and doesn’t cry to come home after two weeks).
Is this going to look good on me for doing this since there is not an order yet saying so?
I do want him to have him for 4 weeks during the summer and every other major holiday. Do you think this is helping with want I want done? I think this is fair since he is so young and daddy lives so far away, many states away.