I have a dvpo on my husband. The date of the final was Oct. 11. we have joint bank accounts and he is using my card to sign up for porn websites. I contacted the websites and they gave me information. My question is, is he violating the order by doing what hes doing. Hes never done this before and so far there are 3 different ones. And also he still has his phone connected to mine via 2 email accounts, I believe hes doing that just to harass me. He has 2 other email accounts he could use that I have nothing to do with. Thank you for your advice.
It is likely not a violation of the DVPO for your husband to use a joint bank account to pay for porn websites.
It’s possible that his phone/email being connected to yours could be a violation. Any contact from him, even indirect contact, is a violation of the DVPO.
Anna Ayscue
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Thank you, He just changed the password on one of the accounts. Who should I go to talk to about this?
You should file a claim for equitable distribution and perhaps a motion for interim distribution.
In the meantime, it is generally acceptable for you to withdraw one-half of the funds in all joint accounts and deposit this money into an account(s) in your individual name.
Anna Ayscue
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm Cary • Chapel Hill • Durham • Raleigh • Wake Forest
Rosen Online | Unlimited confidential access to a North Carolina attorney for $199/mo - click here
The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service only, a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. The information posted on this forum is available for public viewing and is not intended to create an attorney client relationship with any individual. These answers are provided for informational purposes only, a person should consult with their own individual legal counsel before taking any action that could affect their legal rights or obligations.