Did your EX buy the home? Is she in NC? Do you know the name of the city?
I ask these questions because you can find SOOOO much information, especially in Mecklenburg Cnty and I would think other counties, by using the Internet. Charlotte (Mecklenburg County) has a Polaris systme that you can look up addresses just by a name if they are home owners. I am not sure if the search allows you to go outside of Mecklenburg county, but it is worth a shot. Purchasing a house is public record or the deed is I believe, so if you can’t find it on the link below call or visit the local court house to see what information is on file.