Greetings. Yes, you should be able to file for the divorce while you are still in Iraq. What county does your wife reside in here in NC, as that is the county where you will need to reside.
You can file one day and one year after the date of separation (the day you stopped living together and one of you intended it to be permanent). As far as I know, the JAG does not do divorces, so you will need a civilian attorney to appear for you. Thank you - for posting and for protecting us all. Stay safe!
Janet L. Fritts
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