Financial support

He had a 2+yr affair. I found out 7 months ago. He can’t afford to leave and honestly I don’t wAnt him too. Question, would post-separation alimony be allotted to me if he leaves and I refuse the divorce? Oh by the way we’ve been together 31 yrs married 28 and have 3 grown sons. The youngest in college, and he makes 5x my salary.

I’m a little confused by your question. You can’t refuse a divorce; either spouse can file for divorce after one year of separation and there isn’t anything you can do to prevent the divorce from being granted. If he makes 5 times your salary, then it sounds like you would be a candidate for PSS/Alimony. Evidence of his affair also has an impact on alimony.