My wife and I have concluded that divorce has become our only option. She has a college age son from a previous marriage that has thoroughly and permanently destroyed our marriage.
We have three children together all under 10. Both of us would seek the maximum custody rights allowable.
If I continue to pay 70% of the expenses, I cannot afford a place of my own. Also, if I were to leave I fear I would be conceding rights to my children.
How can I safely and quickly get a separate dwelling place and get the separation/divorce process in motion without losing rights to my children and property?