First, thank you for your service on behalf of all of us here, back home. Yes, you will have a home and you should plan on coming back into your home.
Next, you may want to file a custody action upon your return, as well as a divorce from bed and board. This will allow you and your wife time to discuss things, but with some deadlines for a resolution in the event you cannot. It will highlight the behavior which she does not want known and does not want to come to terms with.
Also, I suggest that you change your spouse’s access to unrestricted funds. This may assist her with her need for finding a job. Best of luck and please keep us posted.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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