I want to separate (been married ~17 years), but my wife doesn’t want to separate. We have a child 13 years old (At what age he can decide with who want to live?), that he is living in this miserable house.
Our relationship is bad and it is getting worst. I don’t understand why she doesn’t want to separate. She already left the marriage. She is been sleeping in our son’s bedroom for many years. She talks bad about me to our son. I knew that this was happening, but I didn’t have any prove. But last week my son got mad with me and sends me a text with some stuff that her mother told him about me, that it is not true. I guess to put him against me.
She already talked to an attorney and I think her attorney told her that, do not agree with anything with me and to wait until I initial the separation. She wants full custody and I want full custody too, but I can agree with 50/50, she doesn’t.
How I can do this the easy way, so my son doesn’t get hurt in this process?