Joint custody or not?


#1

Dear Jingles:

Greetings. First, joint custody means joint decision making - not how often you have the children. Sole custody means only one parent making all the decisions.

Yes, your husband may have a say in the children remaining in the area. Although he cannot “take” the children from you, he may be able to have a judge order that they remain in the area where they currently live - which may mean that they will live with him if you move. Thank you.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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#2

Help! My husband and I are separated & he has the kids Saturday mornings from 9:00 a.m. until Monday mornings at 7:00 a.m. & then he has them again on Monday night from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 a.m. on Tuesday morning. I have them the remainder of the time. Is this truly “joint custody”, or is it actually I have full custody & he has visitation?

Also, I am moving 3 hours away (still in the state of NC) & have no desire to keep his kids away from him, but he says he can’t drive that far & he wants to have full custody. Can he take the kids from me if I move?

Thanks for your time.