Sole Custody


#1

Sole custody is a possiblity if one parent is unwilling or unable to act in the best interests of the minor child.

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#2

How difficult is it to obtain sole custody in North Carolina?

Currently, we have a joint temporary custody order granting visitation to my ex every other weekend. We were never married. We have one child together. The child is an infant. Dad lives out-of-state.

Despite my best efforts, dad and I can’t get along. We have a mutual Rule 64 civil restraining order in place limiting our contact with each other. The order state that neither party is allowed to belittle the other one, but the order is largely ignored by dad.

During a doctor’s visit a few months ago, dad changed our child’s address from my address to his address. Before paying the bill, I noticed the address change at the bottom of the discharge form. When I asked dad about it, he said the change was just for billing. I knew that wasn’t a correct statement. Instead of starting an argument in the middle of the doctor’s office, I called the office the next day, explained the situation and had the address changed.

Dad also has the infant car seat in the front seat of his vehicle, despite a letter that was sent from my attorney to his attorney. He has a truck with a backseat.

At a recent court hearing, our judge told dad he was not allowed to cut our child’s hair. Grooming, she said, was the custodial parent’s responsibility. A few weeks ago, dad took our child for a haircut. When I asked him what had happened to our child’s hair he said he had it cut because he didn’t like the way I had cut it.

Things are so bad between us that the judge ordered me not to give any medical information to him except for appointment dates.

I am afraid that if we are given joint custody, we will be litigating minutia until our child turns 18. His judgment also scares me. Is sole custody a possibility?