My husband and I separated a few months ago. He has retained a lawyer. He refuses to give me any money to let me get one. He has also stopped paying for all the bills and food. He has left the home. I was completely dependent on him since I didn’t work. What steps can I take to get money for a lawyer and money for support. I’m under the understanding there has to be a court proceedings but how to I ask for one. Thank you
You may have to take out a loan, use credit, or borrow from someone in order to initially retain a lawyer. But you are entitled to ask the court for reimbursement of your attorney’s fees. This request for attorney’s fees must be included in your court complaint.
You will need to file a court complaint against your husband for postseparation support and alimony, among any other claims you may be eligible for (i.e. equitable distribution, child custody, child support, etc.).
Take a look at our Sample Complaint to use as a guide as your draft your own.
Additionally, you may find our webinars helpful. We offer two free Webinars, Divorce Legal and 50 Divorce Tips in 50 Minutes. These webinars will give you lots of information about the divorce process and they are presented multiple times a week.
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