I think what Sandy is trying to tell UpsetWife is that the Life Insurance Policy doesn’t effect her. Its not principle, it’s future financial security. If you read the entire posting, part of Sandys settlement was a portion of the pension, if the ex dies before the pension is paid out, Sandy will receive nothing that she is entitled to, that is why there is an insurance policy, to insure against this. Insurance isn’t cheap, and if she is willing to pay the premium for her future security, more power to her. Upsetwife just wants to see her ex spouse’s past disappear, that will not happen.
Upsetwife needs to stop being so bitter and hateful, Sandy was telling her why the ex may still need the insurance, and Upsetwife came out with many personnal attacks.
The problem with this world today is that everyone is to worried about what others may do, we all need to slow down and deside what is worth fighting.