So he moves out after 26 yrs. of marriage. He did this once before, about 15 yrs ago, and yes he was cheating, but I took him back as I loved him and our family.
I worked for him for 25 yrs. He “fired” me a few months before leaving this time, and I was able to find a part time job. We had a joint account that I put in my name, he took me off the business account.
He takes “business expenses” that are questionable, and I want them added to his income… over 100k, mine under 20k. To date he has not given me a dime. I have been living off my income and savings. Says I can have the house, paid for, but all the bills, taxes, etc. are mine, after paying them, I have about $200 a month for food, gas, clothes meds etc.
I have cc statements I found after he left, gambling to the tune of 3k a month. Jewlery stores, hotels, and groceries… didn’t even know he knew where groceries came from. I had NO IDEA he even had that kind of money!
He gave me a car for xmas 04, but is in his name, won’t sign it over, and won’t pay ins. Is another expense I will have to dip into savings to manage if I can get him to sign it over. Ins ends in 10 days.
Waiting on Lawyers replys can be so excruciating!
No underage kids, but I am over 50 and job prospects are slim. I am not asking for the world, but asking for somewhere in the 2-3k per month. Of course he says he can’t afford that. Will the judge look at the cc statements and take them into account??