My husband decided to move out of our home and get an apartment. My paycheck will not cover the housepayment, utilities, insurance, groceries, and he knew that when he left. He makes about 30 percent more than I do, and gets an additional $7000 from the Army every year. He just walked away from all his responsibilities.
He moved out because he had become addicted to internet porn and preferred webcamming and “online” sex with other women instead of our marriage. I begged him to go to counseling with me and he refused–said he was perfectly fine and needed no counseling. He also posted nude photographs of himself on the internet which were very embarrassing to me.
We have been married 4 years, and the house was mine before we married. He had lousy credit and could not get a loan in his name, so everything we bought had to be bought under my name. I had to take out all the equity and refinance the house in order to buy the things he wanted during our marriage, so my house payment is now much more than it used to be. I was debt-free when we married: now I owe nearly $100,000.
I know now that he was just a con man and I got taken. But, is there any hope for my getting spousal support or his having to pay part of the debts? Would I be able to get spousal support from him even though our salaries are not that much different?