If you are referring to the court ordered custody mediation, you can expect that you will be in a room with your spouse and a neutral mediation. The mediator will try to facilitate a discussion between you and your spouse and help you reach a parenting agreement that you are both comfortable with. The mediation is for you and your spouse and you should not bring anyone with you.
You should take anything with you that you feel will make you more comfortable during the mediation. The mediator will not be making a decision though, and so it is not necessary that you bring anything with you.
Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, NC 28262
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or so he says…