Greetings. I am sorry to hear about the division taking place in your family. It sounds to me like your parents are unfairly placing you in the middle. As far as the separation agreement, it is generally completed upon signing with a notary and cannot be amended except by agreement of the parties. Nevertheless, have your father meet with an attorney about the separation agreement. He may have additional rights and responsibilities which he is not taking care of.
I know this is hard, but as I always tell my clients, they can worry about the emotional stuff and let me worry about the legal aspects. That is what makes attorneys so useful. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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