I recently learned that my husband cheated on me in Asheville. The woman who met him and after two hours seduced him (when he was drunk) to have sex in her car on the parking lot of a hotel. This woman lives and works in Asheville. I am living in Connecticut with my family.
The group of people that had joined my husband were all people pretending to be our mutual friends. The woman who first slept and after tried to start an affair with my husband was a friend of someone pretending to be my friend.
When my husband left Asheville (morning after the adultery) she proceeded to contact him via Facebook and after getting his email address she started sending him emails with all the sexual fantasies she had about him. She also added herself to his IM and was sending him messages during the day.
I found about this affaire a couple of days ago (it had stopped before I found out because she apparently found someone else) and will request a divorce soon and will have to sell my house. I have tried to discuss this with all the ‘friends’ involved but all of a sudden nobody knew her or wanted to get involved (in my head it was already too late to say this to me at this point)
After the discovery I have tried to contact the woman who cheated with my husband via phone and email to discuss her motives and help me get closure, she has ignored all my efforts to reach her so far. I have two small children (3 and 6 years old) and moved to the us from Europe for my husband’s work 2 years ago.
I am in the US as a dependent of my husband, but did manage to find a full time job that I really enjoy. This divorce will likely change my immigration status and require me to go back to Europe with my children and thus this affaire will literally break up my family.
You might understand how deeply hurt I am not to speak of all the extra costs I will incur due to this divorce. Would it be possible for me to make use of the alienation of affection suit? I really would like her to understand that it’s NOT ok to do this to anybody and that ignoring me does not make it any less horrible what she did.
Many thanks for any help you can offer.