Greetings. PTSD is a tragic disorder, which is often misunderstood and difficult to live with. I can understand your need to separate and find some peace. You should meet with an attorney and have them draft up a separation agreement. You should do this before you take any other steps.
The children will likely visit the parent who is not the primary care provider, but without knowing your county, living situations, etc., I cannot tell you who will get the house and children.
Finally, the house will either be refinanced by one party for them to remain in the home or it will be sold. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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