Dear Fed UP:
Greetings. I can understand how you must feel that you are on an emotional rollercoaster in the dark, awaiting the next big drop at any moment. It will come, so be prepared.
My advice for this is to speak with an attorney and formulate a plan for separation and custody. Having a plan will allow you to better anticipate each mood swing, how you will feel, and allow you time to recover from each emotional dip in the road.
Also, I recommend that you speak with a mental health professional as soon as possible. I know it may sound strange, but having someone who is totally neutral listen to every word you say is very empowering and therapeutic. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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