Greetings. First, your initial instinct to obtain an attorney is the right one. Once you have obtained an attorney, they will likely help you decide which of the following options you want to proceed with:
First, you can use collaborative law to negotiate a settlement between you and your spouse and to determine who should move out and who should stay.
You may be able to obtain a domestic violence restraining order, depending on the abuse and the advice of your attorney.
The possibility exists for you to file for a Divorce from Bed and Board and ask the court to remove him. You would file a claim for post separation support and alimony at the same time though, to ensure that you could pay for the bills.
You could start to negotiate with him in the home in the traditional process of positional negotiation, but I worry that this only leads you down the road of more abuse.
You do not need any information during your first meeting with your attorney, but you will need to obtain financial information documenting the value of all assets.
Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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