My- ex and I go to court end of March/April ( date not yet set)
He has hired a lawyer _ I can not afford one right now.
When I called his lawyers office to get date ( since it had a 3 week span) he said that I would get a notice but that my -ex has requested he not speak to me on the phone or in writing because it will cost him extra money.
I need to prepare my case and to do so I need several pieces of info from my ex. The lawyer suggested I go directly to my ex but the reason I do not is because my ex has extremely abusive language.
I was thinking of writing my ex and giving him a certain amount of time before contacting is lawyer again. How long should I wait before I ask his lawyer to answer or should I just copy his lawyer so we have the same start date for a response?
One thing I need is to see actual bill for child insurance- and a record of his rental income. If he refuses to give it to me- what do I do? If I have to get it myself I most likely need to hire a lawyer will my ex have to reimburse me since he refused to send?