Greetings. First, let me be clear on this, YOU NEED AN ATTORNEY. You may need to file a Rule 59/60 motion in response to her motion, since you agreed to pay $25k worth of bills based on the information she provided, but now you know of $80k in bills. Asking the court to not hold you responsible for the fact that you made an agreement based on a false disclosure by her seems reasonable to me.
Next, you need to be able to show what you can pay, what you have paid, etc. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
704.307.4595 main fax
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