I am uncertain of what I can do about this… I will provide a bit of background here.
I was in a custody fights with my ex for a little more than a year. I do not have the $ to have a lawyer to present me. So I went into the court room as pro se against his lawyer, him and his current girlfriend. It was 3 against 1, which I really never want to do that again. Earlier this Spring, I finally signed an agreement in giving my ex custody of the children. The judge had signed and granted the custody order.
(He owns a large home, and has a very stable job with good income. I as a mom who lives in an apartment and low income. I really had believed that they were/will provide the kids a good health family environment. The girlfriend has a son with her ex. They bought a house together. All 3 kids live with them. I do know that my ex loves the kids. They have been together for a bit more than 2 years now.)
My kids just came to visit this past weekend. My kids have two memory sticks. They told me dad had gave them those. One kid each. (I am uncertain if they took it somewhere from the house…) However, I was shocked to discover that 1 of the memory stick has some very inappropriate sexual photos of my ex and his current girlfriend’s SM threesome photos.
I am guessing, either he didn’t check if the jump drive is empty… or the kids found it somewhere and took it. My kids are 10 and 7. I am certain that my 10 years old saw the pictures… he knows how to use computer well, and I had bought him a jump drives to load pictures that he takes, his pets, trees, or things he is making. He usually show me those pictures. Though, he lost that one 2-3 weeks ago. So, I thought dad bought him a new drive… I didn’t think much when they came this weekend, both have jump drives.
Out of curious, I ask my 7 years old son, if he also put some pictures in his jump drive… and that was how I discover the inappropriate pictures. They were right beside me. I had to shut down the computer right away!
What can I do about this? I had signed an agreement in giving the full custody to my ex in early this spring. Is this enough to ask for change of custody? What should I do?