Ok. I have made a few posts on here about what to do about my situation. My wife is making it very difficult for me to be able to see my son by myself. She insists that I can see my son whenever I want but That she will not let me take him with me. I know that I need to go file for my visitation rights. After the talk we had today on the phone it is very clear to me that she is no longer interested in our relationship and she basically told me that I have no rights to my son and that it is not her responsibility to bring him to come and see me. I told her if she is going to make it difficult for me to be able to see my son without having to have her tag along then I am going to make it difficult on her. Well her father butted in on the phone and said " you want this to go to court then good be ready" and he hung up the phone. Ok here are the questions that I have.
I have never ever abused or beat on my wife or my child.
Basically what I need to know is this. If my wife gets a lawyer will her parents be allowed to tell the lawyer what they want her to do? The way I see it this is between My wife and myself and that Her parents should not be allowed to have any involvment in the situation. My wife is living with her parents, She does not have a job, The car that I bought for her that I had to put in her name is sitting at her parents house with 2 flat tires and no insurance. I have sent her 1,000 dollars in 2 months time but still the car sits. My wife has made no effort to even let me see my son. I have always made the effort myself. She has never called me and asked if I wanted to come and see my son. She makes no effort to call me to tell me how my son is.
As far as the car is concerned. Since I bought the car while we were married even though the title is in her name I still have a say so in what is done with the car correct. Its obvious she is not using the car for anything good.
My fear is this, Her parents hate me badly, And I can now see that it is obvious that the women that said she would never leave me and that I was the love of her life has now taken the hate from her parents. I am scared that her parents are going to get her a lawyer and try to take my son away from me, Try to take every penny that I make because they do not want me to be his father. They Will Lie in court, I know they will. Will her parents be allowed to speak for her in court? Will the judge have anything to say about what her parents are saying? It is none of there business. Will my wife be able to get alimony from me? We have only been married for a year.
Basically I need to know some of the answers to these questions so I know what to expect. I know I need to file for custody/visitation. But i Need to get my license back before I do that, But what If the take me to court before I get my license back because she filed for custody.
i think We need to hire a mediator. How do I go about doing that?? Am I getting ready to get screwed over here?