My EX-wife makes it her job to make my life difficult. Her latest interference is with my court ordered visitation.
My court ordered visitation is for my children to be in my care from 12:00 PM Wednesdays - 12:00PM on Saturdays. The judge was aware that I have to work some Wednesdays and would have a sitter. He was not concerned with who the sitter was or anything surrounding the sitter.
Last week I had my fiance’s aunt pick the children up from my ex-wife at the pick-up/drop-off location. I notified my ex-wife in advance that I would be sending a family member to pick up the children. I gave her the person’s name, and told her they would be driving my fiance’s care (so there would be no confusion). Also, I told her if she was running late or if there was a problem to text or email me.
When she arrived she refused to let them out of the car. She interrogated her, asked her for ID, where she lived and her phone number. She also told her that she should have been introduced to her and that she needs to EVERYONE who will be around her children and in their lives. After the girls confirmed that they have spent time with the sitter before she let them out of the car.
SO last night I received an email from her stating that she will only allow me to pick up the girls and she would not release them to anyone else.
Is this legal? I cannot control who she has pick them up or drop them off, how can she control what arrangements I have made. Is there anything that I can do?