I just got a divorce in NC this year. Our papers are not in black in white. I was to get my son for Christmas this year, it was agreed abound while sitting with my ex attorney, my attorney an the mediator. However it was not put in the notes from the mediator. My attorney informed me that my ex contacted her attorney and I was not to get my son for Christmas but can get him after. I live in Illinois and my papers state I am responsible for all transportation for visitation and can do so in the easiest way. I was going to fly him for I only get him for a week. My ex would not let him fly, nor was she going to take him to the airport. So I was not able to get my son for Christmas this year.
I also get him four weeks out of the summer that is all the order states. I would like to get him for his birthday June 20 and for fathers day. I would like to start my four weeks as soon as he gets out of school. However my ex has informed me I can’t for she already has plans. Every time I bring up a date she tells me no. I am being denied visitations with my son.
I am asking since I am the non custodial parent do I get first choice for my summer visit’s and do I have the right for fathers day? My papers only state word by word “to have minor child four weeks in the summer, a week before or after Christmas every other year and every other spring break.”