Greetings. No, I would not advise that you take your ex back to court. If your ex does not want to see your child, you cannot force them to.
Yes, you may still have to let the child go in three (3) months. Until he stops coming for about 3-6 months, you are unlikely to have much success in modifying the court order.
You are right that the separation will affect your child. Your ex sounds very selfish. Good luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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